Monday, January 31, 2011
Recipe for Academic Success -- by Sunil sharma
Over the years i have wondered what is the common characteristics of successful people.......since i deal wid students i will talk about TOPPERS......after observing n teaching so many students i have discovered what i call secret ingredients to success n formulated a recipe to achieve success in ur studies....... in ur life......haha so wanna hear.....say YES(loudely) to urself.............lets start........
Ingredients of Sucess:
1] Attitude
2] Belief
3] Commitments
4] PR--method
5] Time factor
6] Study Techniques
Now SOCHO SAMJO FEEL KARO ........the above are the indispensable ingredients .....u cannot miss any of them...and had to be followed in right order or sequence.......So let us discuss one by one...............
but wait "U noe wat......ask me WAT"
do u really want to know how to use it then PLACE A REQUEST IN THE COMMENT SECTION so that i would know how desperate u r to improve urself.................................
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 21/06/2010 time 8.30am signing off thane vikas branch*****
ok so on demand writing furthur...............
Lets start wid ATTITUDE
A very profound statement "Ur ATTITUDE determines ur ALTITUDE" bfore u read ahead i want u take 30 seconds n think over it.......just SOcho Samjho n feeeeel karo.......................................pls do not skip thinking its very important for ur success............if u feel like writing....feel free to write wat ur thoughts on it are.....it will give u insights on ur ATTITUDE..........unless u understand ur own attitude we cant proceed.............take a break n make some notes........if u really wanna improve
ok if u r reading this means i take it for granted dat u thought over it.................if not please be honest n sincere go back n rethink.........
U noe wat ask me wat.............
There r many types of attitudes...... i will speak about:
i) Listening Attitude
and ii) Learning Attitude
***************** to be continued ************************
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 21/06/2010 time 8.46pm signing off bhandup*****
First of all wats an attitude.....n how does attitude affects ur life......
Attitude is ur way of thinking............its ur thought process....it is how u feel about certain events
Attitude is linked to every small big things in ur life......
simply speaking...." You are defined by ur Attitude n hence ur Altitude
"In rain all birds occupy shelter but eagle is da one 1 dat avoids da rain by flying above da clouds.
Problem is common to all but attitude makes da difference!" is a perfect example of a attitude n altitude.
I hope now it is clear wats an attitude is...............
Lets proceed.......say Yes
As i mentioned there r two types of attitude........... yaad hai na....bolo........haaaan........
toh bolo kaunsa...........
oka
After a test in Mahesh tutorials there was a counselling session if u all remember...............I took
those sessions at a branch................I entered da class and as usual i greeted everyone n
asked there marks in math................many students who scored less marks asked me for help n
solution to score good marks.......i asked them "ok when u gave ur math paper u were pretty aware
that ur paper didnt go well? yes or no? they answered yes.......then i asked did u have an ATTITUDE
oF collecting remaining sets of math paper n solvING it for ur improvisation........answer was "NO"
........then why r u asking me for da solution to score good marks..............
"Solution is change ur ATTITUDE.........."
it is this attitude which takes a normal person like us to achieve milestone in life.........
U WOULD HAVE HEARD
"Winners don't do different things.........they do things differently"
then there was a girl who started crying profusely along wid her mother...............she had scored
very very less score n got flunked......the entire class was like PIN DROP SILENCE........i waited for
around 10 seconds then i asked her "TO CRY MORE......." She... her mother n the whole class
students ..parents every one were stunned by my remark.....it was a strange remark.....i told her if
"Ur tears can give u 10 marks more then please cry......or otherwise JUST STAND N TELL EVERY1 OVER
HERE.......... Tday I HAVE SCORED LESS MARK BUT NEXT TIME IN DA SAME ROOM u will come and
congrats me for ma score"....................now thats Wat i call an attitude ma dear friends..............
In life keep an attitude which will help u take great altitude....................
I have observed many toppers from different schools... locality...genre.....religions.......but u know
wat.......ask me wat ......there is one thing common in all da toppers........can u guess wat it is???
They have great attitude of active LISTENING......toppers listen to every thing wat teacher has to say
right from each sentence to details of words n examples used to xplain da concept....at times they
keep a pencil handy to note down certain key points n that helps them to recall while studying or giving
test papers.....so wat did u learn wat type of attitude u need to cultivate.........bolo........bolo.....
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ Be an active listener @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
Then there is an attitude of many immatured students of retaliating back to
their nagging parents who are behind their life for studies........this type of attitude classified
under negative attitude rarely helps rather it becomes frustration......if u r facing this type of problem
then the only one solution is CHANGE UR ATTITUDE.......
Again i would say be an active listener........just listen to wat ur parents has to say ...dont retaliate
n decide in ur mind that next time u will score good marks n my parents will appreciate me rather than
giving me advices.......wat did u learn..........bolo........bolo....
To change other's attitude...... u need to CHANGE UR OWN ATTITUDE.....life would be really easy then
Finally i will speak about ur attitude towards ur studies, ur subjects.......believe me
dat determines ur score in dat subject.........always keep a Learning Attitude.....whether u like da
subject or not......challenge da subject......ask urself Wh-questions related to topics of dat
subject.......trust me ....u not only learn dat subject wid dis learning attitude......but also score
well.......resulting in good score...or atleast better than da last ones....
So have a Listening attitude.......have a Learning attitude.........have a positive attitude.........
%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%
Next im gonna speak on beliefs rather the name should be HYPNOSIS OF BELIEF
to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 23/06/2010 time 10.44am signing off bhandup*****
Hpnosis Of Beliefs
Each n every one of us is acting under the influence of hynosis of belief.....trust me its 101% true....
if u dont trust me then tell me da reason y u hav few religious belif so engraved in u that its difficult to believ in other religions customs....tell me da reason y u dont like few subjects.......tell me da reason y u cant score 98%........well whatever reason u will be giving me its pure "BULLSHIT"...
U r just a human body acting under the hypnotic spell of ur beliefs..so let us understand BELIEF...
So should i start the exciting jouney.............say YESSSSSSS(loudely) to urself
I will start wid few questions so be better ready for it!!.........think n answer ok
Can u think of scoring 97% this year?????? if yes then raise ur hand.....
Woow u might think sir has gone mad..................
U noe wat.....ask me wat.......
Trust me wen i ask dis question to my students 99% of the students do not raise their hand n start
laughing............this is da problem my dear students?????? I did not ask u to score 97%.....i asked u
to THINK of getting 97%...........da problem is something is there inside u which is telling u "naaaaa it is
impossible...97% cannot be scored" ryte .......this something is ur internal dialogues which comes from
ur beliefs......."Many students do not think of getting above 90% n trust me they have never
surpassed that number" throughout their academic carrier.
think about urself did u believe that u can score 90% + ....if "no" then thats the reason y u have never
scored it.....see it is very simple .....whatever u see ryte now....pc,gadgets,buildings,cell phones,
games,books.....somebody gave a thought over it....n made it to realisation......but still da fact is
somebody has to think....somebody has a BELIEF that it is possible.......
I suppose u r getting to undertsand the role of "Belief" in ur life.....say Yes
********to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 24/06/2010 time 9.30am signing off bhandup*****
Beliefs is learned behaviour...beliefs generate from experiences.............
i will give some examples here to make u all understand......
do u knoe that a big elephant is generally tied to small n weak stick called stake.....if u have been to
circus or seen somewhere.......
did u ever wonder that elephant has da power n ability to break dat stake n loose free.......
but elephant never does dat.......do u knoe why????...... do u wanna know......say YESSSSSS
its is something an elephant is trained wen elephant is an infant.......
The baby elephant is tied to that little stake but unfornutaely baby elephant doesn't have the power to
break free........the baby elephant tries n tries but is not able to free himself.......finally baby elephant
thinks its useless to try as it wont break.........a new belief is created......this belief is so ingrained in
an elephant's mind that even a full grown adult believes that he cant break free..............
think about it for a second....
How many of us have such limiting beliefs??????????/
A student thinks some subject is difficult n he is not able to score? this becomes a belief that he will
never be able to perform well in dat subject.....inspite of best coaching provided....mind is completely
cluttered with fear of failing...
********to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 24/06/2010 time 9.30am signing off bhandup*****
I will give u ma personal example to make u realize what beliefs can do?
CAn u believe if I say that till 9th std I use to fail in maths...............yeah its a fact...i had a phobia of
Math.....but then i told myself i cant live like a loser......and had a belief that if somebody
teaches me well.....i would perform well....i started practicing all the sums.....discussing n explaining
sums to others u wont believe the amount of hardwork i put in........all ma walls of home was filled wid
formulaes.......slowly i satrted gaining confidence......finally had a crush on the beauty of mathematics
n today i stand in front of u all as Mathematic teacher teaching 9th, 10th, 11th n 12th MAth C.B.S.E,
S.S.C n I.C.S.E boards
.................to be continued
2nd july 2010
Many students find some subject for example "Math" difficult.....actually wat u dont undertsand that its ur belief .....its ur inner little voice which i will call "Mr little U" which is coming from the belief n whispering in ur ears ..."Its difficult....wahtever u do u just dont understand...u cant ...its impossible..math is wierd...its boring...y r u studying....wats the use....stop studying...lets close the book n do something else"....
im sure yeh sablog agree karenge dat u often hear this Mr. Little U speaking to u.....YES or NO????
See Deepak chopra, a renowned physician n spiritual teacher says that there is a Realm inside u apart from ur mental n physical body from where anything is possible....think about it...
Let me xplain wid the help of example..........
Imagine urself 2000years back if u were born ......will u ever try to believe of technological gadgets of todays world.....ur answer is nopes i suppose 101%
but there were ppl who believd its possible hence its exist as of now other wise it wouldnt have been isnt??/
So wat do u undertsand......."Some Subject is difficult is just a thought.......u cannot score above 90% is just a thought.........u r not beautiful/handsome is just a thought........Solution: Change ur belief....Change ur thought...change ur life......its simple
Next question u would ask me is "How to do that? right.........
Simple challenge ur belief....if u r thinking u cant do it......then ask y not?
y is it impossible?........wat can be done to achieve it?.....wat made u beleive that u r weak?
Create a burning desire that "atleast u wont live a life of loser.......u will challenge each negative belief u have n break it by asking questions to create new belief.....n a new Mr Little U(charmer)........trust me this little new charmer will be appreciated n liked by every one ...overnight u will become star...
wen i failed in math in 9th std.....i asked myself is this the way im gonna live it ma entire life wid a fear of math....or im gonna do something about it....i said to myself..."Math might be difficult...but more than that its the belief..its the thought rather than the subject which is making me feel that it is difficult...i had burning desire of learning math to rule out the math fear completely......
Today wen i see back then i am proud of wat i did.."I just challenged ma negative belief..."
folks i wanna see u to be proud of urself by challenging ur negative beliefs..let it be anything
N wen u feel so please do inform me.....i would love to hear it from u.....thnx in advance for remembering me at that time.........
hope whatever i spoke on belief ...u will give a thought over it...Best of luck
########################################################
next i will speak on GOALS
TO BE CONTINUED.........................
Ingredients of Sucess:
1] Attitude
2] Belief
3] Commitments
4] PR--method
5] Time factor
6] Study Techniques
Now SOCHO SAMJO FEEL KARO ........the above are the indispensable ingredients .....u cannot miss any of them...and had to be followed in right order or sequence.......So let us discuss one by one...............
but wait "U noe wat......ask me WAT"
do u really want to know how to use it then PLACE A REQUEST IN THE COMMENT SECTION so that i would know how desperate u r to improve urself.................................
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 21/06/2010 time 8.30am signing off thane vikas branch*****
ok so on demand writing furthur...............
Lets start wid ATTITUDE
A very profound statement "Ur ATTITUDE determines ur ALTITUDE" bfore u read ahead i want u take 30 seconds n think over it.......just SOcho Samjho n feeeeel karo.......................................pls do not skip thinking its very important for ur success............if u feel like writing....feel free to write wat ur thoughts on it are.....it will give u insights on ur ATTITUDE..........unless u understand ur own attitude we cant proceed.............take a break n make some notes........if u really wanna improve
ok if u r reading this means i take it for granted dat u thought over it.................if not please be honest n sincere go back n rethink.........
U noe wat ask me wat.............
There r many types of attitudes...... i will speak about:
i) Listening Attitude
and ii) Learning Attitude
***************** to be continued ************************
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 21/06/2010 time 8.46pm signing off bhandup*****
First of all wats an attitude.....n how does attitude affects ur life......
Attitude is ur way of thinking............its ur thought process....it is how u feel about certain events
Attitude is linked to every small big things in ur life......
simply speaking...." You are defined by ur Attitude n hence ur Altitude
"In rain all birds occupy shelter but eagle is da one 1 dat avoids da rain by flying above da clouds.
Problem is common to all but attitude makes da difference!" is a perfect example of a attitude n altitude.
I hope now it is clear wats an attitude is...............
Lets proceed.......say Yes
As i mentioned there r two types of attitude........... yaad hai na....bolo........haaaan........
toh bolo kaunsa...........
oka
After a test in Mahesh tutorials there was a counselling session if u all remember...............I took
those sessions at a branch................I entered da class and as usual i greeted everyone n
asked there marks in math................many students who scored less marks asked me for help n
solution to score good marks.......i asked them "ok when u gave ur math paper u were pretty aware
that ur paper didnt go well? yes or no? they answered yes.......then i asked did u have an ATTITUDE
oF collecting remaining sets of math paper n solvING it for ur improvisation........answer was "NO"
........then why r u asking me for da solution to score good marks..............
"Solution is change ur ATTITUDE.........."
it is this attitude which takes a normal person like us to achieve milestone in life.........
U WOULD HAVE HEARD
"Winners don't do different things.........they do things differently"
then there was a girl who started crying profusely along wid her mother...............she had scored
very very less score n got flunked......the entire class was like PIN DROP SILENCE........i waited for
around 10 seconds then i asked her "TO CRY MORE......." She... her mother n the whole class
students ..parents every one were stunned by my remark.....it was a strange remark.....i told her if
"Ur tears can give u 10 marks more then please cry......or otherwise JUST STAND N TELL EVERY1 OVER
HERE.......... Tday I HAVE SCORED LESS MARK BUT NEXT TIME IN DA SAME ROOM u will come and
congrats me for ma score"....................now thats Wat i call an attitude ma dear friends..............
In life keep an attitude which will help u take great altitude....................
I have observed many toppers from different schools... locality...genre.....religions.......but u know
wat.......ask me wat ......there is one thing common in all da toppers........can u guess wat it is???
They have great attitude of active LISTENING......toppers listen to every thing wat teacher has to say
right from each sentence to details of words n examples used to xplain da concept....at times they
keep a pencil handy to note down certain key points n that helps them to recall while studying or giving
test papers.....so wat did u learn wat type of attitude u need to cultivate.........bolo........bolo.....
@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ Be an active listener @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@
Then there is an attitude of many immatured students of retaliating back to
their nagging parents who are behind their life for studies........this type of attitude classified
under negative attitude rarely helps rather it becomes frustration......if u r facing this type of problem
then the only one solution is CHANGE UR ATTITUDE.......
Again i would say be an active listener........just listen to wat ur parents has to say ...dont retaliate
n decide in ur mind that next time u will score good marks n my parents will appreciate me rather than
giving me advices.......wat did u learn..........bolo........bolo....
To change other's attitude...... u need to CHANGE UR OWN ATTITUDE.....life would be really easy then
Finally i will speak about ur attitude towards ur studies, ur subjects.......believe me
dat determines ur score in dat subject.........always keep a Learning Attitude.....whether u like da
subject or not......challenge da subject......ask urself Wh-questions related to topics of dat
subject.......trust me ....u not only learn dat subject wid dis learning attitude......but also score
well.......resulting in good score...or atleast better than da last ones....
So have a Listening attitude.......have a Learning attitude.........have a positive attitude.........
%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%
Next im gonna speak on beliefs rather the name should be HYPNOSIS OF BELIEF
to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 23/06/2010 time 10.44am signing off bhandup*****
Hpnosis Of Beliefs
Each n every one of us is acting under the influence of hynosis of belief.....trust me its 101% true....
if u dont trust me then tell me da reason y u hav few religious belif so engraved in u that its difficult to believ in other religions customs....tell me da reason y u dont like few subjects.......tell me da reason y u cant score 98%........well whatever reason u will be giving me its pure "BULLSHIT"...
U r just a human body acting under the hypnotic spell of ur beliefs..so let us understand BELIEF...
So should i start the exciting jouney.............say YESSSSSSS(loudely) to urself
I will start wid few questions so be better ready for it!!.........think n answer ok
Can u think of scoring 97% this year?????? if yes then raise ur hand.....
Woow u might think sir has gone mad..................
U noe wat.....ask me wat.......
Trust me wen i ask dis question to my students 99% of the students do not raise their hand n start
laughing............this is da problem my dear students?????? I did not ask u to score 97%.....i asked u
to THINK of getting 97%...........da problem is something is there inside u which is telling u "naaaaa it is
impossible...97% cannot be scored" ryte .......this something is ur internal dialogues which comes from
ur beliefs......."Many students do not think of getting above 90% n trust me they have never
surpassed that number" throughout their academic carrier.
think about urself did u believe that u can score 90% + ....if "no" then thats the reason y u have never
scored it.....see it is very simple .....whatever u see ryte now....pc,gadgets,buildings,cell phones,
games,books.....somebody gave a thought over it....n made it to realisation......but still da fact is
somebody has to think....somebody has a BELIEF that it is possible.......
I suppose u r getting to undertsand the role of "Belief" in ur life.....say Yes
********to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 24/06/2010 time 9.30am signing off bhandup*****
Beliefs is learned behaviour...beliefs generate from experiences.............
i will give some examples here to make u all understand......
do u knoe that a big elephant is generally tied to small n weak stick called stake.....if u have been to
circus or seen somewhere.......
did u ever wonder that elephant has da power n ability to break dat stake n loose free.......
but elephant never does dat.......do u knoe why????...... do u wanna know......say YESSSSSS
its is something an elephant is trained wen elephant is an infant.......
The baby elephant is tied to that little stake but unfornutaely baby elephant doesn't have the power to
break free........the baby elephant tries n tries but is not able to free himself.......finally baby elephant
thinks its useless to try as it wont break.........a new belief is created......this belief is so ingrained in
an elephant's mind that even a full grown adult believes that he cant break free..............
think about it for a second....
How many of us have such limiting beliefs??????????/
A student thinks some subject is difficult n he is not able to score? this becomes a belief that he will
never be able to perform well in dat subject.....inspite of best coaching provided....mind is completely
cluttered with fear of failing...
********to be continued
Note: *****This is purely my work please do not copy n paste any where its a request----- Sunil Sharma date 24/06/2010 time 9.30am signing off bhandup*****
I will give u ma personal example to make u realize what beliefs can do?
CAn u believe if I say that till 9th std I use to fail in maths...............yeah its a fact...i had a phobia of
Math.....but then i told myself i cant live like a loser......and had a belief that if somebody
teaches me well.....i would perform well....i started practicing all the sums.....discussing n explaining
sums to others u wont believe the amount of hardwork i put in........all ma walls of home was filled wid
formulaes.......slowly i satrted gaining confidence......finally had a crush on the beauty of mathematics
n today i stand in front of u all as Mathematic teacher teaching 9th, 10th, 11th n 12th MAth C.B.S.E,
S.S.C n I.C.S.E boards
.................to be continued
2nd july 2010
Many students find some subject for example "Math" difficult.....actually wat u dont undertsand that its ur belief .....its ur inner little voice which i will call "Mr little U" which is coming from the belief n whispering in ur ears ..."Its difficult....wahtever u do u just dont understand...u cant ...its impossible..math is wierd...its boring...y r u studying....wats the use....stop studying...lets close the book n do something else"....
im sure yeh sablog agree karenge dat u often hear this Mr. Little U speaking to u.....YES or NO????
See Deepak chopra, a renowned physician n spiritual teacher says that there is a Realm inside u apart from ur mental n physical body from where anything is possible....think about it...
Let me xplain wid the help of example..........
Imagine urself 2000years back if u were born ......will u ever try to believe of technological gadgets of todays world.....ur answer is nopes i suppose 101%
but there were ppl who believd its possible hence its exist as of now other wise it wouldnt have been isnt??/
So wat do u undertsand......."Some Subject is difficult is just a thought.......u cannot score above 90% is just a thought.........u r not beautiful/handsome is just a thought........Solution: Change ur belief....Change ur thought...change ur life......its simple
Next question u would ask me is "How to do that? right.........
Simple challenge ur belief....if u r thinking u cant do it......then ask y not?
y is it impossible?........wat can be done to achieve it?.....wat made u beleive that u r weak?
Create a burning desire that "atleast u wont live a life of loser.......u will challenge each negative belief u have n break it by asking questions to create new belief.....n a new Mr Little U(charmer)........trust me this little new charmer will be appreciated n liked by every one ...overnight u will become star...
wen i failed in math in 9th std.....i asked myself is this the way im gonna live it ma entire life wid a fear of math....or im gonna do something about it....i said to myself..."Math might be difficult...but more than that its the belief..its the thought rather than the subject which is making me feel that it is difficult...i had burning desire of learning math to rule out the math fear completely......
Today wen i see back then i am proud of wat i did.."I just challenged ma negative belief..."
folks i wanna see u to be proud of urself by challenging ur negative beliefs..let it be anything
N wen u feel so please do inform me.....i would love to hear it from u.....thnx in advance for remembering me at that time.........
hope whatever i spoke on belief ...u will give a thought over it...Best of luck
########################################################
next i will speak on GOALS
TO BE CONTINUED.........................
I have lived on the lip of insanity....
I have lived on the lip of insanity, wanting to know reasons, knocking on a door.
It opens.
I've been knocking from the inside!
-- Rumi
Many live on the lip of insanity, and for exactly the reasons he posits.
The mind runs aimlessly hither and thither, bumping up against itself, in various guises. (Who'd you think you were bumping into up there? There's nobody home but you.) The mind, the ego voice, chatters incessantly, blaming, making excuses, and most of all, scaring you with dire consequences and evil predictions.We want to run away, to hide, to find safety. Until, of course, we get the joke.
You can't run away or get over it. There is nothing to run from, and there is no it. There's just you, seeking the answer to the following, "Why am I choosing to scare myself?" How can you run away from a question you're asking yourself?
Keep opening, keep walking, but knock once. Then notice. Not only does the door open, but you find yourself opening the door to yourself, so your self is set free. ...
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"To See a World..."
This is my first post...
Came across beautifull thoughts put into words By poet William Blake.. To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower,
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour.....!!~~ How deep and Profound thoughts....So guys leave comments of what u can interprate ?
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